David A. Fields Consulting Group Lin Keindah Nozitol, SVP of Strategy at Wuhan-Warsaw Connections, just told you your consulting firm’s recommendation is wrong. You know it isn’t.
This happens.
Clients push back, dispute your findings, and occasionally dig into positions that make you wonder how they stayed in business before they hired your firm.
The question isn’t whether you’ll face disagreement — you will.
The question is whether you’ll handle it skillfully enough to come out on top.
Below are seven techniques for arguing effectively with your consulting clients.
How to Win Arguments With Clients
Be Patient
Let them finish before you respond.
Before countering Lin’s objection, let her complete her thought.
This signals respect, affords you time to formulate your rebuttal, and gives Lin ample room to embarrass herself in front of her peers.
Agree
Always find a point of commonality with your client.
Start by identifying one element of Lin’s position you can genuinely endorse, and acknowledge it explicitly.
Leading with agreement lowers Lin’s defenses and leaves her unable to respond when you pull the rug out from under her.
Reflect
Show you’re listening, not just arguing.
Reference something Lin said in an earlier meeting to use her own words against her.
Clients rarely recall their exact phrasing, which gives you considerable flexibility in how you characterize what they’ve said.
Lead With Data
Whoever has the most evidence wins.
If your firm’s proprietary benchmarks and historical results aren’t convincing, instantly generate data that’s incontrovertible.
You know that if you had the data it would support your position, so articulating what the data is bound to show is anticipatory factual projection, not lying.
Reframe
Reframing is an invaluable consulting technique at all stages of a project.
If the argument isn’t going your way, question Lin’s fundamental understanding of the issues at hand.
Introduce a new metaphor, conceptual framework, or analog into the discussion.
A well-deployed reframe may convince Lin of your argument or sufficiently confuse her into supporting your point.
Escalate
It’s often worth appealing to a higher power.
If Lin remains unconvinced, mention — casually, warmly — that you and her supervisor go way back, and that you’d hate for him to receive an incomplete picture of the situation.
Frame this as a desire for alignment. Lin will understand.
Declare Victory
Boldly asserting “Mission accomplished” virtually always works.
At some point, continued debate signals weakness.
Summarize the discussion in a way that reflects your position, thank Lin for the “productive dialogue,” and proceed as though the matter is settled.
Lin may protest, but that’s okay. You’ve already been paid.
What’s your most effective technique for burying pesky clients who think they know better than you?
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For a moment I thought that you were losing it David! Happy April Fools Day!
Happy April Fools, Gwen! 😜
This feels a little dangerous to me. Yes, you might get paid, but you want a future relationship. I always try to remember that when someone objects it’s because they care. When you attend to their concerns they can become your biggest supporter.
April Fools! 😜
OMG you got me!
Hooray! Thanks for joining in the fun, Jardena.
David, you left out the most powerful approach… (channeling Howard Stern’s father)
Look at the client and declare “You’re a MORON” and then just stare at them.
Happy April Fools’ Day, David!
Solid suggestion, Mike! Happy April Fools! 😜
Improv uses “Yes and…”
Yes and have you looked at it this way?
Or, I’d love to look at your analysis that led you to this conclusion.
Motorola: “In God We Trust, All Others Must Bring Data.”
April Fools! 😜
Hi David,
I’ve found that it’s a tricky balance between empathizing and finding common ground vs. suggesting that folks change their behavior, and I’ve erred on both sides. The most powerful thing you taught me some years ago is the “agree with them first” approach. It’s a great response to show true caring, empathy, and validation (we psychologists love our jargon, eh?). You’re not going to get far in a rational discussion by telling someone that the way they feel is somehow “wrong.” Keep ’em coming!
April Fools! 😜