David A. Fields Consulting Group How to Sound Authoritative (and Why it Matters for Your Consulting Firm)
Clients hire your consulting firm because they trust you to help them solve their problems or achieve their aspirations; because they accept your authority in your area of expertise.
Conversely, any crack in your perceived authority will weaken trust with prospects and with clients. That can trigger a precipitous drop in perceived value (and fees), likelihood to do business with your consulting firm, willingness to accept your recommendations, and eagerness to engage your firm for follow-on work.
Perception of authority, not actual authority, affects trust.
That’s why you’ve seen other consulting firms score impressive engagements although, based on their actual knowledge, experience and competence, they had no more right to win than a fluffy cat at the Westminster dog show.
Of course, as a consulting firm leader, you are used to portraying confidence in your competence. It’s a fundamental component in your ability to close contracts and to deliver results your clients happily accept.
But what about those times you’re not confident, or those times when, inexplicably, clients and prospects don’t perceive you as an authority?
Also, what about the perception of your colleagues’ authority? You may rely on others to lead parts of projects, entire projects or entire client relationships, if those associates aren’t perceived as authorities then trust, relationships and engagements are at risk.
You can sound more authoritative—credible, believable and compelling, without sounding arrogant, presumptuous or pompous.
Unfortunately, studies show that certain people start off at an advantage or disadvantage due to their gender, ethnic background, religion, socio-economic status, vocal register and even their height, perceived level of health or affection for fluffy cats.
Most of those factors you can’t control; however, the dozen distinctions below can be learned, developed and mastered.
If, for instance, you want someone in your consulting firm other than you to be able to effectively lead clients, you can evaluate them on the factors below (and others suggested in the comments), then create an improvement plan.
A Dozen Tips to Sound More Authoritative
More Authoritative
Less Authoritative
Good posture*
Slumping, bent posture
Purposeful hand gestures
No hand gestures, wringing hands
Modulated tone and volume
Monotone
Emotional stability
Tears, angry outbursts, whoops of joy
Active listening, responding to questions
Poor listening, answering wrong questions or no questions
Professional attire
Overly casual or formal attire
Effective story telling
Telling stories that are clipped, ramble, have no clear point
Good use of rhetorical devices: repetition, analogy, metaphor
Boring language, confusing or inappropriate rhetoric
Humility, valuing other perspectives along with your own
Persistent arrogance, clearly placing others’ opinions above your own*
Confident, inclusive humor
Nervous, uneasy humor*
Reference to relevant examples and personal experience
Generic or irrelevant examples, clear lack of experience
What else?
What else?
Help improve the list. What is missing?
I would also like to hear from you about differences. For instance, are there any recommendations you think should be modified or eliminated for certain people or situations?
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I work in a government regulated industry. It helps to quote or paraphrase the regulatory guidance documents. For example: “This topic is covered in International Committee of Harmonization M3(R2) Guidance for Industry published in 2009, as well as ICH S6(R1) Guidance published by US FDA in 2012. Here is how this topic should be addressed…”
Something like that usually works well.
Well done, Peter. That’s an excellent illustration of citing relevant information. Heck, the fact that you can remember ICH S6(R1) automatically makes you sound like an expert. A high level of precision and specificity helps, whereas talking in generalities suggests you’re actually not that familiar with your material.
Great contribution to the conversation, Peter!
Great post, but how do you balance sounding authoritative with sounding blusterous? My feed is filled with sounds-too-good-to-be-true social media consultants (not to pick on them but an area that has a “show no fear or weakness” approach to sales) that once you unpack the hood you realize they are often far ahead of their skis.
I think I know a decent amount about my area of expertise and “confident, patient, objective” is how I try to position myself, but it rubs when there’s all this “tried and true” “bulletproof” “100% guaranteed success” in abundance.
I see more “fakers” than “makers” tbh.
Good question, Eric. You’ll notice that the entire article shies away from bluster and, in fact, none of the tips recommend using exaggerated, grandiose claims. Making promises and over-the-top claims does not position you as an expert. It positions you as a salesperson. (Hence, your reaction to the social media folks.)
As noted above and in the comments from other readers, focus on delivering sound advice founded on concrete, specific, relevant examples. Once you have established authority, you can start making claims, as appropriate, to win business.
I appreciate your positing the question, Eric.
Taken too far, being authoritative can come across as arrogant, unemotional and untrustworthy. Sharing more of yourself, if you’ve built trust with your client, can lead to much deeper emotional ties. A whoop of joy when you’ve achieved a key milestone or an honest “I don’t know but I’ll find out and get back to you” can make clients feel like they know and like you as a person. Humility can be really powerful as an independent consultant, especially when juxtaposed against the big firms who know everything, have all the answers and can do no wrong.
Your point is so, absolutely correct, Dave. Taken too far, you move from authority to authoritarian, which is not good. Hence, one of the tips on the “green” side of the ledger is humility. We have all seen hubris win in the short term. In the long term, however, it’s a poor basis for leading a consulting firm.
I’m glad you highlighted that point, Dave–it’s so important.
Sharing case studies to demonstrate your experience with a particular client challenge. Particularly if the case study can reveal some finer points that have driven success. I like to use case studies in two ways, a simple one-pager that can act as proof of expertise (shared without any voiceover) and a deeper dive version of the same case study to walk through the details with a client.
Right on, Tony. Case studies fit squarely in the category of providing relevant examples. Of course, you have to present those case studies well, too. If you have great case studies but fall on the red side of the line on all the other tips, the authority granted by the case study is lost.
Thanks for jumping into the conversation, Tony!
Hi David, I’d like to add: professional-looking materials, emails, and work product. By the way, there is an excellent book, “The Leader Phrase Book” by Patrick Alain that may be of interest to your readers. The author says the book “will enhance your command of the English language and allow your confidence and leadership skills to shine through.” I found the book very helpful.
Great suggestion, Lauren, and thank you for the book tip. That’s not a book I’ve read myself; however, I’ll look into it. Verbal acuity can certainly play into a perception of authority. People associate language skills with intelligence, and while the intelligence-authority relationship isn’t perfect, they certainly move in the same direction.
Excellent contribution to the discussion, Lauren–thanks for chiming in!